Avoid becoming the "Close Talker"
Posted by Liz Taylor Jan 21, 2014
Have you ever attended a networking event and noticed the person whom you were talking with repeatedly leaned away from you? Many invaders aren’t aware that they make other people feel uncomfortable by occupying someone’s personal space. When in doubt, the following rules apply:
- Never touch anyone you don’t know.
- Stand at least one arms-length from a person.
- If you walk into an auditorium that isn’t crowded, leave an extra seat between you and the next person.
- Never lean over someone else’s shoulder to read something unless invited.
- Don’t put your arm around someone’s shoulder or slap anyone on the back unless you know the person very well.
- Understand that most people aren’t comfortable hugging in a professional environment.
- Don’t reach for anyone’s children, regardless of your intentions (same applies towards a pregnant woman’s midsection).
When someone gets uncomfortably close to you, casually lean away from the person or take a step back. Another option is to politely tell the person you are uncomfortable being so close and explain why you need more space.
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